and it isn't loving.
people tend to argue the dichotomy of the brain and the heart when it comes to love. realistically, it doesn't exist. the heart pumps blood and nothing more, the brain does all the "loving". but for content's sake, I really have trouble between the two... right now.
yes, it is a good feeling to be enamored with someone. you think of them a lot, your fondest memories of the person befalls you and leaves you with a smile. it is nice to love, especially when you are totally fine with the unrequited kind, which rarely happens, or maybe it only happens to me. I do not consciously seek for opportunities to determine if the person feels the same way I do because I am happy with what I have and who I am.
trouble is, I'm starting to obsess on the person so much so that it's almost intrusive to my single life. I love being single and having all the time for your friends because I've always held to the idea that "with friends like these, who needs a romantic relationship?". so despite not being committed to someone, I feel torn between the person whom I like so much and the companions I've always had.
it's kinda stupid really, probably even a laughable story? sometimes I'm TOO loyal.
3 comments:
True. Emotions are processed only by the hypothalamus in the limbic system of the brain. :)))
May nagsesettle pa ba talaga sa unrequited love, in reality?
Kahit ikaw nga na siyang nagke-claim na masaya na sa unrequited love e nag-iisip pa ng future dilemma of having to choose between friends and a lover eh. :>
I doubt anyone settles for unrequited love... or at least it's what common sense dictates. but yeah, eventually I'll get sick and tired of having the feeling unrequited, but right now, I'm totally fine with that.
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